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Born in Sg, survived seven years of IJ, escaped to canada for the miraculous rebirth.. likes to say she found self there, But well when can we reach self actualization? now a waterloo student. 110% horse mad, was practically born on the back of a horse ( or rather wishes she was) horses are my favourite thing.

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Saturday, November 24, 2012

Hey folks! Guess who is baaaaackkkk

Its been a very very long time. I know. I can hardly believe it has been six years since I have started this blog. Five years since I have been in Canada. Five years, seems so much longer than that though. In five years I..

1. Went to boarding school and did grade 12
2. Got a bachelors degree
3. Decided my career path
4. Found and lost love, not once but twice
5. Really grew up

I went through periods of happiness, loneliness, sadness, joy, bitterness, jealousy and then peace. There was a time when I used to be so hung up over finding a guy, a boyfriend. Now, I really don't care anymore. If I find him, I find him, if it doesn't happen, it doesn;t. I no longer feel the pressure ( this wierd because currently a lot of my friends from college are married) I feel free to do what I want. Of course yes the comfort and company is great, but I like being able to things idependantly.

Whether I return to singapore in the future is unknown, I don't really want to.... but we will see. I don't know.

Ive come so far, changed and matured in so many ways, still am. But i think I am now a lot more sure and confident of who I am and what I want.